Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Re: [Peckers_Pics] Hair Wars; Dec 14, 2010 - Safe PICS For All Ages, Rated G



Michael S, much of what you say has chilling resonance even across the other side of the world [Australia, west coast].



From: Michael Shediwy <frontrunner1947@hotmail.com>
To: peckers_pics@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wed, 15 December, 2010 9:38:29 AM
Subject: RE: [Peckers_Pics] Hair Wars; Dec 14, 2010 - Safe PICS For All Ages, Rated G

 

I am a 63 year old gay male, with two grown sons, who have known about me since they were twelve, and have no problem with Dad being gay. I live in a small town in Iowa, but lived in Des Moines, Denver and Phoenix most of my life. I have a decent pension, after working 36 years for the gov't. I live in a retirement housing with mostly old women and a couple of men besides me. I do not  go to the bars anymore in Des Moines, which I use to be well known, because no one will talk to me. I don't want to find a trick, I just like to have nice conversation with other gay guys and gals, but that is impossible. No one wants to waste time with an old man, may loose a trick if they do. I understand to an extent, cause I get up in the morning and look in the mirror and wonder who that guy is.LOL Anyway I use to own a gay disco bar in Des Moines in the seventies, and we had a quiet bar, and we would get some older guys in, and I use to make a point of talking to them and finding out about their lives and the times they grew up in. I made a lot of friends, young and old. But most of them are gone, and the ones that are alive have disappeared, sort of like me. It is a shame, cause I miss having friends than understand me and my life style. I have great memories of the three great loves of my life, but no friends. The young need to remember that they will get there someday, if they are lucky. I have multiple health problems and do not hate growing old, just scared of how the end will be, and wish I had some friends to be their, but I guess I should count my blessings, cause my sons will be there, and many people do not even have that. God Bless and Love Mike S.







To: Peckers_Pics@yahoogroups.com
From: butch_blanc@yahoo.ca
Date: Tue, 14 Dec 2010 09:05:20 -0800
Subject: Re: [Peckers_Pics] Hair Wars; Dec 14, 2010 - Safe PICS For All Ages, Rated G

 

Glad you mentioned the senior gays' problems.
I am sure we have the same issues in Canada, and not much seems to done about it.
I am on Social services and will soon hopefully be on government disability (CPP Disability).
 
It is really rough and frightening.
Right now I am in a very cold basement "apartment' (not self-contained0 with only my main room heated.
It is awfully depressing and I constantly worry now that the cold weather is here about how warm my 2 cats are when I am out as I do not want to leave the space heater on (for safety reasons.)
 
I am 60 and can get disability till I am 65.
(The disability pays me more than if I get my Canada pension early and then when I  turn 65 I will get my pensipn (not much more than welfare, plus old age security and income supplement,
(the latter 2 are only if youbn have no assets or property or other pensions which I do not.))
God Bless you.
Sincerely,
Butch


From: Lee Sonoflaw <rumpldforeskin@yahoo.com>
To: Peckers_Pics@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Mon, December 13, 2010 8:18:49 PM
Subject: Re: [Peckers_Pics] Hair Wars; Dec 14, 2010 - Safe PICS For All Ages, Rated G

 
We should have a social worker at every GLBT community center in America to provide services and support for our senior population.  We have serious social, medical and financial problems with in our senior community.  No one is addressing them. 

Rightly we put a lot of effort into our HIV+ community and we do a pretty good job of providing support for persons who have dependency issues.  And now we are becoming aware of the problems of harassment of youth in schools. 

But when was the last time you paid any attention to the old queen or lesbian who lives in the poor part of town?  It is estimated that half of the Gay and lesbian over 70 live alone.  And most of them are living at or near the poverty level. 

\Who cares?  I mean there is only a 50/50 chance that is YOUR future.

--- On Mon, 12/13/10, Jake <jakewest_tn@yahoo.com> wrote:

From: Jake <jakewest_tn@yahoo.com>
Subject: [Peckers_Pics] Hair Wars; Dec 14, 2010 - Safe PICS For All Ages, Rated G
To: Peckers_Pics@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, December 13, 2010, 3:32 PM



 
Hair Wars; Dec 14, 2010
Safe PICS For All Ages, Rated  G
 
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The Lesser-Known Complications of HIV/AIDS
Erin N. Marcus, M.D. : Nov 29, 2010 : Huffington Post
 

At the age of 56, Jules Levin felt pretty invincible, despite being HIV positive. He went to the gym regularly and controlled his disease well by taking his antiretroviral medicines every day.
Then he slipped one day while on vacation and broke his wrist. He underwent an operation to insert pins in his bones and needed to wear a cast for a month, keep his arm elevated, and then do physical therapy for two months to get to the point where he could lift a five pound weight. "It was one of the most difficult things I've ever been through in my life," he said. "I ran, biked, lifted weights and now all of a sudden I couldn't turn the page of a newspaper. It just really got to me."
After a few simple tests, the reason for Levin's fracture became clear: His bones were weak from osteoporosis, a disease that's most commonly seen in older women, but that's also associated with HIV.
"The giddiness of the age of HAART is over," said Levin, referring to highly active antiretroviral therapy, the life-saving drug regimen prescribed to people with HIV. "We should have an aging clinic in every hospital that's serving HIV patients."
Osteoporosis is one of many conditions associated with old age that is now being seen with increasing frequency in people with HIV. Research suggests that long-term exposure to the virus, and to the inflammation it triggers, make people vulnerable to premature aging and to a host of conditions seen with aging, heart and kidney disease, dementia, and osteoporosis.
Additionally, the overall population of people with HIV is getting older, thanks to improved medical therapy. At present, 1 in 4 people with HIV is age 50 or older. The U.S. Senate Special Committee on Aging has predicted that half of all adults with HIV will be older than 50 by the year 2015. Over the past few years, the National Institute of Health has increased its funding for research on HIV and aging, and the White House hosted a conference on October 27 on HIV and aging.
"The evidence is pretty clear," said Levin, who directs The National AIDS Treatment Advocacy Project (NATAP), a New York-based HIV education and advocacy group. "We're going to see early frailty, early senescence and people are going to start dying at earlier ages."
Compared to other conditions associated with HIV and aging, osteoporosis is relatively straightforward to forestall and treat. To maintain bone strength, it's important for all people with HIV to make sure they are consuming an adequate amount of calcium and Vitamin D. A recent article in the journal Clinical Infectious Diseases recommends 1,000 to 1,500 mg of calcium and 800 to 1,000 IUs of Vitamin D daily, as well as at least 30 minutes of weight-bearing exercise, such as jogging or walking, at least three days a week. Calcium is plentiful in dairy products and sardines, and is available in supplements such as calcium carbonate and calcium citrate. The National Institutes of Health has an online information sheet listing ways to get calcium. It's also important to avoid smoking and heavy alcohol use, since these can cause osteoporosis.
HIV is thought to be associated with osteoporosis for a variety of reasons. The infection, itself, causes inflammation, which in turn impacts the cells that maintain bones. Many conditions common in people with HIV, such as Vitamin D deficiency, being underweight and low testosterone, are associated with osteoporosis. Antiretroviral therapy and other medications frequently prescribed to people with HIV, such as Prednisone, also cause bone loss.
Even though many antiretrovirals can cause bone loss, osteoporosis is not a reason to stop taking them. "Antiretroviral therapy is life-saving, and we know that stopping antiretroviral therapy is not a good strategy for preventing complications," said Dr. Todd Brown, an endocrinology specialist at Johns Hopkins University who co-wrote the article in Clinical Infectious Diseases.
Brown and his coauthors recommend that all HIV-positive men older than age 50 and women who are past menopause undergo testing for osteoporosis, since it's a condition that usually doesn't cause symptoms until the person breaks a bone. His own research has found that osteoporosis is "alarmingly" prevalent among African Americans in inner city Baltimore. "Because of the perception that osteoporosis is a white disease, people of color get short shrift for screening," he said. "This concept that African Americans are protected shouldn't be a reason to neglect them."
Once someone is diagnosed with osteoporosis, it's important to take action to prevent falling, such as removing clutter and slippery rugs from the floor. Physical therapy can help improve strength and balance, which also reduce the risk of a fall. The person also should get his or her vision checked and review his or her medication list with a doctor to try to minimize any drug side effects or interactions that might cause drowsiness or unsteadiness.
A class of medicines called bisphosphonates can improve bone strength, but do have some rare risks. "While they do decrease the risk of fracture, they're not totally benign drugs," Brown said. "On the flip side, you shouldn't not use them in the patient who is at high risk of a fracture."

Levin urges all people with HIV to be assertive about discussing osteoporosis and other age-related conditions with their doctor. "My guess is that 90 percent of patients know nothing about any of this and a lot of clinicians and case managers don't know about it either," he said. "Every patient should ask their clinician, 'are you aware, are you monitoring me for heart disease, diabetes, bone disease, cognitive impairment, kidney disease?' This is an important issue for everybody."

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