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Today's Health/Excercise Message:Challenge bullies wherever you encounter them, says Judith HollandsOct 10, 2010 / The Post StandardThe loss of another young life due to bullying deeply disturbs me.On Sept. 22, Tyler Clementi threw himself from a bridge, after being exposed as gay by two schoolmates who chose to record his sexual encounter with another male and stream it, live, online.Tyler did not deserve to be humiliated to death. No one does. After all, we are the land of the free, aren't we? Yet people who are different, for any reason, are subject to indignities and injustice. In 2009, our president signed a law, making it illegal to harass others due to gender identity. In 2007, suicide was the third leading cause of death for young people ages 15 to 24, according to the National Institute of Mental Health. Many of these deaths are now being called "bullycides" suicide by brute harassment.
My gay son is in a bully-targeted population. He, like Tyler, falls into a category of people who are signaled, via word, gesture or act, that he is unwelcome in society.
Sometimes it's obvious, a remark like, "Hey gay boy, you don't belong here." Bystanders should not tolerate such bullying. A responsible adult should be told and should intervene.
I see the kinds of conduct that drive a child to opt out. Within my own family, my son has been called a mistake of nature. At 7, he was cornered in a school bathroom and ridiculed because of his colorful sneakers. At 9, a teacher bullied him so badly that another mother called me, concerned with what was going on. At 14, he was not openly gay, but the name-calling was in full force: sissy, faggot, femmy queen.
He is an adult now and able to say, just last week, "There was something wrong with that teacher, Mom." At 9, no child can risk believing his caregivers could be so untrustworthy. No one wants to believe that friends, schoolmates, teachers, preachers, mentors, coaches or others we look to for care and guidance could be so mindlessly cruel or could silently allow public acts of cruelty.
As human beings, we need to recognize that bullycide is real and is depriving us of the potential of thousands. It deprives them of a right that most of us take for granted the right to live and love freely.
Don't be silent. Demand safe social encounters and don't accept bullying at home, school and work. Make it the law and see that it is enacted in our courts and everyday lives. Teach our children that they are born to live within our society, not on the outskirts. Live and love inclusively.
Refuse to condone bully attacks in all their ugly guises harassment, discrimination, prejudice, abuse, persecution, conflict and violence.
We all need to get bully smart recognizing it and stopping it now. A bully at school, at home or at work is a risk to everyone. Where character bashing is permitted, the scene is set for all other forms of violence, from assault to murder and bullycide.
My heart grieves for the loss of Tyler Clementi. But I am encouraged by the public outcry. I hope that this energy can be harnessed for a lasting campaign to debunk bully tolerance and its deadly costs.
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