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I think that as straight people often prefer to live together, so do Gay people.
 
Part of the legal marriage of gays is that they will hopefully be allowed to be the spouses of each other where pensions and insurance is concerned.
   If gay people want a religious ceremony then they should be mature enough and know enough about whether they  they can stay together and if they are not religious they could just have a civil ceremony for the legal reasons as mentioned re insurance, pension and next of kin where medical decisions need to be made etc.
Butch

From: Mark Fischer <fischerwdc@gmail.com>
To: Peckers_Pics@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, October 12, 2011 9:10 PM
Subject: Re: [Peckers_Pics] Male/Gay Health-Discussion-PICS Model Wars-Oct 7, 2011-Boycott Georgia-Trump-TARGET-FOX NEWS-Salvation Army

 
You missed Rachel's overall point as well as the fact that she expressed her views for herself and her partner . . . not a prescription for all LGBT folks. 

Perhaps that is because you are hyper-focused on marriage as a magic state that you think will convey far more than it possibly can.  Relationships are far more dependent on individual commitment and behavior than on legal or social affirmation.  Yes, equal legal status will give material benefits and rights ... something that could also be assured through civil unions ... followed by "marriages" in LGBT affirming churches ... thereby keeping the "state" out the "church" and what has become the  religious institution of marriage.  Even if that end is achieved, the emotional quality of the union will still depend solely on the partners.  What Maddow correctly points out is that making  gay marriage "standardized" will eliminate the flexibility and adaptability that LGBT relationships have developed and that, for many, have avoided the pitfalls of rigid marriage as defined in traditional society.  As one who managed to sustain a 21-year relationship (that survived ricer and poorer, health and sickness until my partner died) without a legally or socially sanctioned affirmation, I appreciate the right to "make our own rules". 

Maddow is absolutely correct that LGBT equality erodes the unique character of the LGBT community.  Assimilation into mainstream society homogenizes cultures.  For proof, you have plenty of evidence surrounding religious, national and racial groups that attained equality and have become part of the melting pot.

As a gay man of 62 who has been out since shortly after Stonewall, I can tell you that the LGBT community of today is far less appealing than it was when we felt more oppressed. People today are more self-centered, materialistic and superficial.  The sense of belonging is gone except within narrow cliques that shun non-members.  Commitment to overall social justice and equality to all has been replaced with a predominant view that holds "LGBT rights are the most important thing LGBT folks need to fight for."  While I value the progress toward equality for which I have fought, I regret and am saddened by the LGBT community's  movement to a lesser state of human awareness and compassion.

I do not pretend to have all the answers.  I listen to and consider other views.  Not everyone has to agree with Rachel Maddow.  However, trashing her views as sour grapes or "BS" is shortsighted and misses the opportunity for valuable thought and discussion.

Be well!

Mark

On Wed, Oct 12, 2011 at 2:05 PM, Terry Purdue <smooth_op_85@yahoo.com> wrote:
 
I call BS on Maddow. We've had our relationships recognized apart from marriage and so has heterosexuals...she's just saying she doesn't believe in marriage because she doesn't want to marry. Fie!

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HIV-Positive Teacher Sues Chicago School System, Claims Discrimination

Roberta Seldon on October 6, 2011 - Third Age

An HIV-positive Chicago Public Schools elementary teacher filed a discrimination lawsuit against the district Wednesday, claiming the school's principal routinely punished him for tardiness despite special accommodations granted by CPS, the Chicago Tribune reports.
 
In papers filed in U.S. District Court, Jumeck Smith accused the principal at Von Humboldt Elementary on Chicago's Northwest Side of failing to adhere to the district's accommodations, which allow Smith to report to work five minutes later than his co-workers. According to Smith, his condition limited his movement so that he was frequently reporting to work after the 8 a.m. start time for teachers.
 
"It's a long building and he has to walk a bit of a distance. And I'm not an expert on HIV issues, but I think it takes him a long time to do something that you or I could do very simply," Smith's attorney, Christopher Cooper, told the Tribune.

Cooper also told the Tribune that Smith, who taught fifth and eighth grades at Von Humboldt, was approached by the principal at the beginning of the school year and informed that his tardiness from the previous school year resulted in 15 citations that were being reported to CPS headquarters. Smith was removed from his eighth-grade classroom, Cooper added.

Since federal privacy laws restrict employers from divulging whether an employee is HIV-positive, it's unclear who at the school knew of Smith's condition, Cooper continued. But according to the lawsuit, the principal knew and harassed Smith over several weeks -- to the point that his work environment became hostile.

Smith, who is African American, also claims the principal discriminated against him because of his race. The student population at Von Humboldt is predominantly Latino.

Smith is seeking damages of at least $325,000.

"He realizes that when he filed this case that this may be the end of his teaching career," Cooper told the Tribune. "He's not going into this blindly."

Smith is currently on paid leave.

Von Humboldt's principal, a defendant in the case, could not be reached Wednesday by the Tribune. CPS officials did not respond to questions either.
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MSNBC's Rachel Maddow: Marriage Threatens Gay Culture
By On Top Magazine Staff - October 06, 2011
 
MSBNC host Rachel Maddow says winning the right to marry would threaten gay culture.
 
The openly lesbian host of The Rachel Maddow Show made her comments in a cover story with entertainment glossy The Hollywood Reporter.

"I feel that gay people not being able to get married for generations, forever, meant that we came up with alternative ways of recognizing relationships," Maddow said. "And I worry that if everybody has access to the same institutions that we lose the creativity of subcultures having to make it on their own. And I like gay culture."

The 38-year-old Maddow met her girlfriend of over ten years, artist Susan Mikula, in Massachusetts, the first state to legalize gay marriage, while finishing her dissertation at Oxford University. The women divide their time between homes in Manhattan and western Massachusetts.

"We know a lot of people who have gotten married," she added, " but I don't think we feel any urgency about it."

Maddow, who appears as herself in George Clooney's upcoming political drama The Ides of March, also said she was a "Hollywood sucker" who would "do anything for George Clooney."
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